Polly Murphy, 47, has been found guilty of murdering her partner, James Self, 47, after a sustained period of abuse culminated in a fatal assault. The tragic incident occurred at a hotel on Hartley Brook Road in Clacton-on-Sea on November 8, 2023. Mr. Self, originally from London, sustained multiple injuries in the attack and succumbed to them in hospital on December 21.
Essex Police investigations uncovered a history of violence inflicted by Murphy on Mr. Self. Text message evidence exposed the increasingly volatile and controlling nature of her treatment. Initially charged with grievous bodily harm with intent, Murphy was ultimately convicted of murder after a four-week trial at Chelmsford Crown Court, with sentencing scheduled for next month.
James’ mother, Ashe, shared a heartfelt tribute, revealing her son’s silent pain: “He was embarrassed by the control and violence being inflicted on him.” She described James as “gentle” and “kind,” suggesting that his belief in the good in people and reluctance to seek help may have contributed to his tragic fate.
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Reflecting on the aftermath, Ashe spoke of the profound impact on the family: “The past two years have changed all of us. The depth of sadness is overwhelming—not only for his death but for the brutality inflicted on such a caring and vulnerable man.” She mourned the loss of her son’s laughter and presence, emphasizing, “His kindness may have cost him his life.”
This tragic case underscores the devastating effects of domestic abuse, especially on victims who may hide their suffering due to embarrassment or fear.