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‘I spent money meant for my kids on my gambling and shopping addiction’

Rachel Grady, a mother from Merthyr Tydfil, Wales, faced a dark chapter when gambling and shopping addictions led her to squander money meant for her children and accumulate £40,000 in debt. After years of secret losses and mounting pressure, a nervous breakdown in 2023 forced her to confront the reality of her situation.

The journey began in 2020 during a period of depression when Rachel tried online gambling once out of curiosity. The initial thrill quickly turned into a daily compulsion, resulting in losses of around £15,000. Simultaneously, her shopping habit spiraled out of control, accumulating debt on five credit cards and two loans. Despite the growing financial strain, she hid the truth from her husband and refused to buy essentials for her children, spending on impulsive purchases instead.

Acknowledging the severity of her situation, Rachel confided in a friend during a family trip and began to act. Recognizing her talent for sales, she started buying bundles of clothes from eBay and reselling them on platforms like Vinted. This side hustle gradually brought in about £2,000 a month, allowing her to chip away at her smallest debts.

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In October 2024, Rachel joined Tilt, a live-selling platform, where she auctioned vintage clothing. Her income skyrocketed to £10,000 monthly, turning her hobby into a full-time business named Rachel’s Vintage Moonstone. By October 2025, just a year after joining Tilt, she cleared all £40,000 of her debt.

Reflecting on her recovery, Rachel shares, “I was in a really dark place. The only thing that made me happy was spending money I didn’t have. Gambling quickly took over my life, and I hid it from everyone, even my husband. It affected my relationships and my kids.” Now, she’s transformed her relationship with money, adopting strict frugality and self-imposed blocks on gambling websites to prevent relapse.

Opening up to her husband after clearing her debt was daunting but ultimately received with support and understanding. Rachel’s story is one of resilience, turning a painful past into a promising future by combining self-awareness and entrepreneurial spirit.

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